Assaults can happen, and they can be committed by someone you know, a total stranger, or somebody you just met who comes off as nice and trustworthy (especially after a few drinks).
If you are going to go out, whether you're a man or a woman, there are several steps you can take to help ensure your safety.
- Stick with your friends -- they're your best bet for staying out of trouble. Whether you have a secret set of hand signals or a system of code words, you should always discuss the plan for the night before you go out.
- Of course, it's never a great idea to leave the bar with someone you've just met. As nice as they may seem, you never really know for sure -- especially if you've been drinking, and your judgement is impaired.
- Don't leave your drink unattended. Someone may put something in it! Be aware of "predatory drugs," substances that can be slipped into your drink without your knowing it.
- Be wary of club promotions or parties that charge men but admit women free and let them drink for free. Alcohol generally affects women more quickly than men and an intoxicated person may be targeted for sexual assault.
- Just because you're a man doesn't mean you don't have to be careful. Men can be attacked too.
- Always keep your cell phone on you -- you never know when you may need to use it.
- Be sure to check the Department of Public Safety's list of crime prevention tips.
- And most importantly, trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right to you, it's probably not. Take steps to ensure your safety.
There are more risk-reducing behaviors that can both help protect you against sexual assault and from ever being accused of it. For more information, see the FAQs section.
Confidential and non-judgmental counseling, support, information and assistance is available at NYU. Contact the Wellness Exchange at 212 443-9999, 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
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